It’s a reality that Erica Beaudin often sees.
The chief of Cowessess First Nation said on Wednesday she has worked with Indigenous families where parents and grandparents die before their missing children are found.
And it’s what happened to Tamra Keepness’s mother, Lorena Keepness, who died suddenly in late May. She was 49.
“This is too often a reality for our families of (missing and murdered Indigenous women and girls),” Beaudin said, as she offered her condolences to the Keepness family.
The chief spoke at an annual barbecue marking Tamra’s disappearance. It’s been 19 years since she was last seen in her home in Regina. The child had been five years old.
A sense of mourning hung over the event this year as those in attendance reflected on the family’s loss.
Beaudin described the mother as someone who was dedicated to her children.
“She was an incredibly beautiful, complex spirit. She was a woman who loved her children dearly,” she said.
“And unfortunately, when we look at some of the systemic issues that Indigenous people face, especially Indigenous women, what we can look at is a path of injustice for Lorena in terms of the system not working with her.”
The mother’s obituary described her as being strong in her faith.
It also said she was protective of her family and known for being open, honest and straightforward.
“She was truly one-of-a-kind and has left a legacy of love and perseverance,” the obituary said.
Police and community members hold the annual barbecue to remind people the search for Tamra continues.